It’s not intended to say – if you scored below 50, you should leave. But it will allow you to reflect on how far from ideal you really are. My clients are often eager for me to give them a conclusive answer to whether or not they should break up with their partner. I just can’t do this, people get together for reasons that sometimes stop being obvious but aren’t necessarily wrong.

I wouldn’t be surprised if the emotions you are going through right now are distorting your view of your relationship. This relationship compatibility test for couples will help to pull it back into perspective.

So below, answer each of the questions for each category in the quiz. Think about your relationship over the long term and not just during a this bad patch. This is a really important point. Even in a healthy relationship there will be times when some people feel like they couldn’t tolerate another moment of their partner’s company.

The total will give you a score out of 100 and indicates the health of your relationship. This exercise will identify the weaknesses you see in your relationship and, if you share it with your partner at some point in the future, it will allow you to discuss whether you’re both willing to work on those weak areas to push up your score.